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Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Non-monogamy (EN)

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A practical guide to nurturing healthy, loving non-monogamous relationships using attachment theory. Attachment theory has entered the mainstream, but most discussions focus on how we can cultivate secure monogamous relationships. What if, like many people, you're striving for secure, happy attachments with more than one partner?Polyamorous psychotherapist Jessica Fern breaks new ground by extending attachment theory into the realm of consensual non-monogamy.

Using her nested model of attachment and trauma, she expands our understanding of how emotional experiences can influence our relationships. Then, she sets out six specific strategies to help you move toward secure attachments in your multiple relationships. Polysecure is both a trailblazing theoretical treatise and a practical guide.

It provides non-monogamous people with a new set of tools to navigate the complexities of multiple loving relationships, and offers radical new concepts that are sure to influence the conversation about attachment theory.

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Customer Reviews (5.0 / 5 · 4 reviews)

Benjamin ★★★★★

Finally, a book that actually applies attachment theory to polyamory instead of just monogamous couples. The breakdown of different attachment styles and how they show up in multiple relationships has already helped me understand my own patterns.

Penelope ★★★★★

I was skeptical about applying attachment theory to polyamory, but the way this book breaks down trauma responses in multiple relationships really clicked for me. The practical exercises for managing jealousy have already shifted how I communicate with my partners.

David ★★★★★

Finally, a book that applies attachment theory to non-monogamy in a practical, grounded way instead of just rehashing monogamous frameworks. The chapter on trauma responses alone was worth the price for me.