How to Use the Shared Touch App-Controlled Vibrator Together
By Other Nature GmbH | Published: 2026-11-01
Category: How-to Guides
Learn how to set up and use the We-Vibe Shared Touch app-controlled couple vibrator together, from pairing to long-distance play, with practical tips and checkpoints.
Quick answer
Use the Shared Touch by pairing it with the We-Vibe app, then explore its two-sided design together—one side for external stimulation and the other for internal or partnered use. For long-distance play, connect through the app and adjust settings in real time.
Why the Shared Touch suits both together and apart
The Shared Touch is designed as a double-sided vibrator: a soft lay-on vibrator on one side and a vibrating masturbator on the other. This means you can use it solo for external pleasure or with a partner during intercourse, depending on which side you position where. The app control adds flexibility, letting you or your partner adjust vibrations without reaching for buttons—useful for long-distance play or when you want to hand over control.
What to check before your first session
Before you start, ensure the toy is charged and the app is installed on both partners’ phones if you plan to play remotely. The Shared Touch is made from soft silicone, so use water-based lubricant only—silicone-based lubes can degrade the surface. Also, agree on boundaries and a safe word if you’re exploring power dynamics or public play, as app control can be surprising.
Step-by-step setup and play
- Charge the vibrator fully: Connect the magnetic charging cable and let it charge until the indicator shows full. A common mistake is assuming a partial charge is enough—low battery can interrupt app connection mid-session. Charge completely before each use to avoid disconnection.
- Download the We-Vibe app on both phones: Install the app from your phone’s official store and create or log into your account. If playing long-distance, make sure your partner also installs it. Checkpoint: confirm both phones have a stable internet connection. Test the app’s connection before you’re in the moment.
- Pair the Shared Touch with the app: Turn on the vibrator by pressing its power button, then open the app and follow the pairing prompts. Keep the toy close to your phone during pairing. Mistake to avoid: pairing in a crowded Bluetooth environment—move away from other devices if pairing fails. If pairing fails, restart the toy and phone Bluetooth, then try again.
- Apply water-based lubricant: Spread a small amount of water-based lube on the silicone surfaces and on yourself. Never use silicone-based lube, as it can damage the material. Checkpoint: reapply as needed rather than using excessive amounts at once. Keep lube handy for comfort, but avoid silicone-based formulas.
- Position the double-sided toy: For partnered use, the curved side typically sits externally while the other side can be inserted or used for stimulation. Experiment to find what feels best—there’s no single correct orientation. Mistake: rushing placement; take time to adjust angles for comfort. Start with gentle pressure and adjust position before increasing intensity.
- Connect with your partner in the app: Use the app’s partner mode to invite your partner to control the vibrations. They can adjust patterns and intensity from their phone. For long-distance, ensure both are logged in and the toy is paired to one phone while the other sends commands. Checkpoint: test with a low vibration first to confirm responsiveness. Agree on a signal to pause or stop if either feels uncomfortable.
- Explore settings and communicate: Cycle through vibration modes and intensities, checking in with each other verbally or through the app’s chat if apart. Mistake: jumping to high intensity immediately—start low and build up. Takeaway: keep communication open throughout. Regular check-ins make the experience better for both partners.
Product facts
- Shared Touch doppelseitiger Vibrator mit App-Steuerung von We-Vibe: Double-sided design: soft lay-on vibrator and vibrating masturbator in one. You can switch between external and internal stimulation without changing toys, making it versatile for couple play.

Shared Touch doppelseitiger Vibrator mit App-Steuerung von We-Vibe - Shared Touch doppelseitiger Vibrator mit App-Steuerung von We-Vibe: Ergonomically curved silicone with gentle ridges between the wings. The shape follows the body’s contours for comfortable wear, and the ridges add texture that enhances sensation during movement.
